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This episode is in the Smart Mindsets & Habits series, and it is Part 2 about how to selectively and wisely decide when to say ‘yes’ to coaching business opportunities. It’s about teaching yourself to stand in your power and answer from your highest self.
Part 1 was about how to breakthrough the bright shiny object syndrome so that you’re not wasting money on webinars, online programs or masterminds that you’re not ready for yet. That’s probably because your business foundation isn’t solid yet. I know that’s frustrating and it’s a good time to stop and get that all nailed down before getting into advanced business programs.
Many of you have been letting me know that that episode hit the mark. Thank you for reaching out. I love hearing from you.
Ellen wrote to me: “I’ve taken many courses and been part of many mastermind groups and webinars but it’s all come to naught because I haven’t converted that learning into practical actions. That’s because I’ve been struggling to figure out who I’m called to serve and what pain point or problem I’m trying to solve.”
As it turned out, Ellen grabbed a strategy session with me and we quickly figured out her ideal target audience plus the problem she’ll help them solve. At the end of the session she said: “Rhonda, that was amazing! I can’t believe what we came up with. I came in confused about my niche and wanted a plan of what to do next. And I got all of that!”
Ellen, that makes me so happy!
So if you want to solidify any aspect of your business foundation — your audience, your niche, your business model — don’t struggle and try to figure that out on your own. Grab a Strategy Session and let’s nail that down for you. You can find that on today’s show notes at prosperouscoach.com/21
Distraction Slows Down Your Coaching Success
Today we’re digging into other types of offers you might be getting as a coach. For example, let’s say someone emailed offering you:
- a radio show program
- a feature in a magazine
- promising to get you leads
- another coach wants to collaborate with you
When offers like this come in, it’s elating. There’s this sense of “I’m not having to do everything myself!” Someone is saying they’ll pave the road for you. And it’s really tempting to say ‘Yes’.
But are these opportunities right for you? Especially for the stage of business you’re in.
If you’re in startup mode — that’s the first 18 months or so of your business — it’s all about solidifying your business foundation. You are:
- Targeting an audience.
- Finding out what makes them tick.
- Figuring out your signature program to help them.
- Developing your brand.
- Building community.
- Setting up your business model, a website and conversion process.
The learning curve is high and while you’re doing all of this you’re also figuring yourself out as a coach, as a business owner.
And for that reason it’s a vulnerable time too.
The potential for distraction and getting pulled off course is high. Some diversions will muddy your vision, waste your resources and set you back.
But what if do feel you’re ready and one of these offers is your breakthrough moment?
How can you discern between the good opportunities and the right opportunities?
Early on in my business I was endlessly distracted. Do you know what I mean?
There was so much stuff in my inbox, my head would spin.
One national radio program courted me saying they wanted to put my business on the map. I was so thrilled! I got so excited I told everyone about it even before I did the due diligence to see if it was legit.
But I’ll admit something didn’t feel quite right.
And it turned out it was only going to cost me $5000. Well, at least I said ‘no’ to that one.
I was offered spreads in online magazines. And there were all sorts of business clearing houses offering a listing on their site for coaches that supposedly had hundreds of thousands of web hits every month. Organizations asked me to speak at their lunch and learn groups and at association meetings.
And I’m truly embarrassed now at how many of these thing I jumped at.
I poured my heart into them. Most of them took me off track. And no clients or sales came out of any of those “opportunities”.
In retrospect none of them truly aligned with my business. They didn’t help me build credibility with my target audience and they didn’t help me build my list.
The organizations were just filling their slate. I helped them but they did not help me.
I finally realized that I needed to set some guidelines for myself. I call them Success Criteria.
Smart Success Criteria
It’s sort of a checklist. Before I say “yes” to any opportunity I ask myself a set of questions. And it starts with 3 anchor questions.
Do I have a good feeling about the people offering this?
Does it align with my integrity and values?
Does it put me in front of my target audience?
If ‘no’ to anything above then I say ‘No’ to the opportunity.
If ‘yes’ I ask myself:
If there’s a financial investment can I easily offset that with 1 enrollment?
Does it allow me to point people to my website for a valuable download?
If ‘no’, I say ‘no’.
If ‘yes’, I consider my current profit margins and also ask myself:
Will doing this build my credibility and brand?
Will I create things for this that I can repurpose elsewhere?
If ‘yes’ and profit margins look good, I say ‘YES!’
Be True to Your Coaching Business
When I put this success criteria in place I also made an agreement to let it guide me 100%. I stuck with it. And that paid off for me.
Not only did I stop having indecision and regret but I also found that it really set my business up for success every time.
Everything I said no to, I ended up feeling I dodged a bullet. Everything I said yes to, returned high value to me.
And then I started get better opportunities. It’s as if I trained the Universe.
I’m an old hand at this now and come to most decisions by simply checking in with my body.
Pressure Means No
If I ever feel uncertain, I take my time. I let a couple of days pass then check in again.
I never make a snap YES decision because I only have so much time and I want to maximize the return for that time.
The reality is that any quality organization or person will give you time to make a smart decision. If you’re feeling pressured, then your answer is ‘NO’.
Now I want you to make your own Success Criteria. And then stay true to them!
And, feel free to share your Success Criteria with me.
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